First of all, I have no idea what one would categorize me as, but I am a one woman show and I do me and me only. So Porn, Soft Porn, Cam girl , Online Influencer, or or I do not concern myself with the small stuff because everyone has a different definition of what I do depending on ones own ideas of the work. Call it what you will. I am the BOSS. I call it a business and I am an actress. Professional Modeling is my professional background but when it comes time to perform in my adult work, to make that bank, then I turn on the performer in me, morph into TC, just do my job, and do it really well 😎 since 1999
I am addressing this once and it will be the last time. I understand everyone will think as they see fit and we are all responsible for our own feelings. Just know, though, everything happens for a reason. Small minds think small. My mind is large and open for more.
My Aunt Dar once told me ” never forget where you came from” when I left to LA to better my life and now that makes more sense than ever.
I came from dysfunctional parenting. Abusive Relationships. Molestation from my Mom’s Foster brother. I came from a childhood of mentally abusive babysitters.
I came from an environment of racism and cheaters. I came from abandonment issues.
I came from abusive relationships where my mom fought constantly , I watched her get choked, punched and the cops did nothing. I came from that stopping when I took a knife to the man to protect my mom. I was 15!
I came from alcoholic family. I came from a life of moving home to home, school to school and living with My mothers boyfriends so life could be easier. I came from a woman who did everything and anything she could for me but had no education so all she could do is kill her self in multiple dead end jobs while she got $100 for child support. I came from growing up in bars and shooting pool at age 7. I came from playing sports but no parents to watch me. Mom had to work.
I came from a woman who would give her last dime to anyone and had 7 dogs cause she couldn’t tell me no. I came from a childhood where I knew the school counselor better than my own dad cause he would help me through the days when I was trying to cope with my mom being abused. He was the male role model for me all through highschool.
My Mom is the best thing I did come from cause she was one strong bish and so am I.
I came from being a sister to multiple siblings with multiple moms so we all just basically existed.
I came from being a sister to my other favorite person in the world. My brother Rob.
I came from laughter and music which is how I survived my moms death when she died of cancer when I was 25. I was dead to the world for five years. Until I came to California and finally began to morn and heal.
I came from toxic environments and toxic people surrounding me. I came from Baltimore where I have been robbed, left a 12 to watch another kid only to wake up to the house being robbed and I ,once again, grabbed a knife, and ran down to protect the little girl and get help. I came from being bullied in school cause I was always the new kid. I came from being punched in the face by my boyfriend and no one standing up for me. I came from standing up for myself cause I am the best man I know. Then I became a fighter myself.
I came from being married three times just like my dad.I came from the understanding that if marriage isn’t fun anymore you just cheat, leave, and get divorce.
I came from having some of the best friends ever cause Baltimore breeds loyalty. That I love about where I came from.
I came from my mom teaching me faith. That is what has saved me time and time again.
I came from respect and honor to men in uniform. I came from sneaking to date African American men and going to a black church that made me feel safe and loved. Thanks Lachelle
So since we now know a little more where Tara truly came from we might try to understand how FAR I have truly come.
To my family and friends, You don’t have to like what I do or who I am in this world, that’s your sin to judge and you’ll pay for.
Just know, I am raising my boy the way I want to, which means ,in person, front and center from education to playing basketball with him every day. I do everything a mother should , I do everything my Mom Couldn’t do for me and more over, everything she wished she could. I bought my Son’s first car as I said I would and that a parent should do.
I was there for every 1st , my son had. I am there cause I can be cause the job you all talk so much shyt about is the same job that makes my life as a mother so amazing and I know my son is safe cause he is with ME. The job you all trash, has helped me since 2002 so get over it! Or don’t. I see the woman I have become. Too bad you haven’t. But none of that matters cause one person loves me regardless and thinks I am Gods gift to his life. That is my Son. I can do no wrong.
Oh and God. I think I am one of his favorites.🤷🏻
I came from lack of education. Age 36 I began self education. Age 40 I enrolled in college. Age 45 I graduated with my Bachelor’s Of Science in Psychology. I am now 46
My Son is smart enough to know it is a job and mind you, he grew up in a lifestyle that my fame and name awarded us. He knows we are not a conventional family. He also knows God. He also knows it is OK to not be what others want us to be. He sees the struggle. Son knows.
I came from wanting to go to college but had no help. You see, I came from super sweet experiences with my mom and grandma , I came from a family who is constantly fighting with each other and a dad who literally said he was divorcing me when I told him I was having an African American baby, yet I forgave after two years .
I love where I came from , Baltimore, cause it prepared me to be the amazing mom I am today and a fighter, protector. It prepared me to be the man and the woman so I don’t have to settle EVER. Other than that, my life was hell quite often but I never knew it then. After five years of Psychology and finding myself spiritually and mentally, now I know how truly screwed up and dysfunctional where I come from, truly is. Last, making a living, in the adult entertainment world, is hard daily hustle that I do because A. I am a professional model and entertainer from HOME, B. I have all the Time in the world for my son. C. I don’t have a boss, I am the BOSS. I run my own life.I run all my businesses ( I have five platforms and 12 social medias..That is a job in itself. )
I run my time. I run my own life. I provide for my family.
And I make what I need, right from the safety and comfort of my own home, car, or beach 🤷🏻😎😅😅💯 #sorrynotsorry
Thank you for reading.
Written with Love
Mama Friday ❤
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